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Stories, tips & real talk

The bits no one tells you about weddings, funerals, vows and ceremonies. Written like we're having a coffee, because that's how I write everything.

Ceremonies 10114 February 20256 min read

What actually IS a celebrant (and why you might want one)

Spoiler: it's not a vicar, it's not a registrar, and yes you can absolutely have your dog as best man.

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Weddings2 March 20257 min read

How to write vows that don't sound like a Hallmark card

A no-fluff guide to writing vows that feel like you, make people cry, and don't take six months to draft.

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Funerals20 March 20255 min read

Funerals can be beautiful (and even funny)

Why a celebrant-led funeral can hold both the heartbreak and the belly laughs your person deserved.

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Weddings5 April 20256 min read

Yes your dog can be in the wedding (here's how)

Ring bearer, witness, flower pup, emotional support? A practical guide to including your dog in the big day.

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Venues21 September 20265 min read

The Lake at Barston: a lakeside wedding venue with a difference

A celebrant's honest look at The Lake at Barston in Solihull, after Sarah and Jay's gloriously unusual lakeside wedding.

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Planning10 September 20266 min read

How much does a celebrant cost in the UK?

What you're actually paying for, what makes the price go up or down, and the questions to ask before you book anyone.

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Ceremonies 10118 August 20265 min read

Celebrant vs registrar: what's the actual difference?

One handles the legal paperwork. One writes the ceremony. Here's how they fit together, and why most couples use both.

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Funerals22 July 20266 min read

What happens at a non-religious funeral?

A gentle, practical walkthrough of a celebrant-led funeral, from the first phone call to the last piece of music.

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Namings14 June 20265 min read

Baby naming ceremony ideas that aren't christenings

Guideparents, time capsules, tree planting and promises. A non-religious way to welcome a child, with ideas you can steal.

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